O término conturbado da relação conjugal e as consequências práticas da alienação parental na saúde mental dos filhos: a mediação como forma de mitigação dos atos alienadores

Abstract

The present study was composed of several objectives, which, in the course of it, was able to reach the proposed conclusions. The first conclusion made demonstrated that the practice of these acts, by the alienating father/mother, can generate terrible effects psychological or even physical in your own child, in addition to disregarding principles provisions for the protection of children and adolescents. It was also shown the importance of the family and its demonstration of affection in the construction of personality of that individual, contributing to a relationship of trust and based on affection. In addition, it was demonstrated how the experience of mourning the end of affective/marital relationship is essential to curb the acts of Parental Alienation, so that, accepting this fact, there is nothing to deposit in your child, in the context of emotional discharge. In addition, it was also concluded that communication and Dialogue, represented by mediation, is essential for conflict resolution relatives. Thus, the established thesis was that it is through communication that the human being understands the feelings, thoughts and attitudes of the other and, including their own, an understanding that becomes essential for the resolution of conflicts of a family nature. Thus, when dealing with a conflict involving the emotions and feelings of the parties, family mediation was understood as the best option for the parties to emotionally free themselves, being able to build an agreement that benefits the wishes of all involved. In addition, the answers of professional mediators and psychologists in the regarding mediation as a way of resolving conflicts of Parental Alienation. Thus, it was concluded that the consequences caused in the psychological child/adolescent due to acts of alienation will hardly be circumvented by a simple court decision, since the fact of facing a lawsuit and having to obey that sentence, many times, it increases the suffering of that son even more. Thus, family mediation proves to be the best method of resolving Parental Alienation conflicts simply because it involves feelings and traumas caused in that child. So, the mediation becomes an opportunity, through dialogue, to clarify all feelings and together they found a solution that meets the interests of all the parties involved in the conflict